Posts tagged “sex

I'm debating whether casual sex is more "pointless" than traditional dating. Both approaches carry the same risk of wasted time and incompatibility. Good men are rare; running jokes with friends aren't. A one-night stand can become a relationship just as easily as coffee dates can go nowhere.

After four years alternating between sex-first and getting-to-know-you approaches, I'm still single with nothing lasting past three months. Neither method wins. Sexual and emotional compatibility both matter, and whichever way you narrow down candidates, you'll waste time on the incompatible ones.

Linked to a penis size survey with surprising findings: white men apparently outsize black men (who knew?), and gay/bisexual men are 50% more likely to react with "awe" to larger endowments. Science is wonderful.