Posts tagged “sexuality

Yes, I want to expose your children to homosexuality. Not for political correctness, but because some of those kids are gay, and shielding them from any depiction of it tells them something is wrong with them. Explaining two boys kissing is no harder than explaining a prince kissing a princess.

I've always been drawn to boys. Every one of them. The way they move, their features, their smiles. I can't help but notice. It's spring, I'm gay, and this is my rambling love letter to the essence of boy. More valuable than cat pictures. Probably.

Gay teens denied normal adolescent development become emotionally stunted adults, making "gay culture" seem dysfunctional. But that dysfunction is our doing, not theirs. Things improve as kids come out younger and just live their lives. Stop tolerating gayness. Stop noticing it. Just love your kids unconditionally.

I'm building a FAQ for well-meaning straight people who have questions about gay people but are too embarrassed to ask. I need your help: what questions should I include? Submit via comments or email, anonymously if you prefer.

Safe dreamingMay 28, 2005

I dreamed I almost had sex, but spent the whole time searching for a condom instead. When I realized mid-dream it was a dream and I'd wasted all that time on safe sex precautions, the frustration woke me up. HIV awareness campaigns have ruined even my fantasy life.

Too busy to blogMar 10, 2005

Too busy to write a full post, so here's a half-formed thought: "gay" is a hard-won identity, not just a sexual behavior. The NHS distinction between identity and practice is actually meaningful, and collapsing them risks erasing what generations fought to define.

Six weeks without sex has pushed me past the "looking for a life partner" phase into "shag anything that moves" territory. I've graphed it. The math is not encouraging.

I've been defining myself by my weaknesses and limitations to seem unique. Realizing now I don't need to do that. I am my strengths, skills, and attractions. Also, there's a ridiculously hot boy in my living room and my timing is terrible.

I'm a gay man who finds locker room nudity baffling and unpleasant. Straight guys shrug it off as "just guys," but that logic doesn't work for me. Why is public nudity suddenly acceptable the moment you enter a changing room? Scrotums are not attractive. Put them away.

It's Gay Sex Week (Oct 12-18) and I'm desperately hoping someone organizes a fundraiser just to watch CNN cover it. Also, my recent posts are giving Google some unfortunate ideas about me. I write sappy poetry, I promise.

SlutApr 16, 2002

A poem about serial one-night-standers seeking connection through sex but finding only emptiness. Skilled at seduction, hopeless at intimacy, they keep returning to the meat market, alone despite never sleeping alone. You can't see another's heart by groping in the dark.

Conducting an informal survey on a possible correlation between breastfeeding and sexual orientation. Mail me your age, orientation, and breastfeeding history. Also stumbled on the alarming "Ban Breastfeeding" website while researching. Results forthcoming.